The Relationship Disclosure Scale (RDS)
Snell‚ W. E.‚ Jr.‚ Hampton‚ B. R.‚ & McManus‚ P.1992
مقیاس درمیان گذاشتن ارتباط با شریک زندگی با مشاور
RDS TOPICS SURVEY - Part A
Female marriage counselor
1. My love and affection for my partner.
2. The significance of sex to this relationship.
3. The emotional closeness in this relationship.
4. How sexually compatible my partner and I are.
5. My degree of commitment to this relationship.
6. My feelings of intimacy for my partner.
7. What sex in this relationship means to me.
8. The emotional sharing that exists between my partner and myself.
9. How well our sexual preferences match.
10. How much trust I have in this relationship.
11. The tender feelings of love I have for my partner.
12. How I feel about the sexual aspects of this relationship.
13. The emotional investment that occurs in this relationship.
14. The degree of sexual harmony my partner and I have.
15. The sense of loyalty I have to this relationship.
Male marriage counselor
16. My love and affection for my partner.
17. The significance of sex to this relationship.
18. The emotional closeness in this relationship.
19. How sexually compatible my partner and I are.
20. My degree of commitment to this relationship.
21. My feelings of intimacy for my partner.
22. What sex in this relationship means to me.
23. The emotional sharing that exists between my partner and myself.
24. How well our sexual preferences match.
25. How much trust I have in this relationship.
26. The tender feelings of love I have for my partner.
27. How I feel about the sexual aspects of this relationship.
28. The emotional investment that occurs in this relationship.
29. The degree of sexual harmony my partner and I have.
30. The sense of loyalty I have to this relationship.
TOPICS SURVEY - Part B
Female marriage counselor
31. The frustrations I feel in this relationship.
32. Things I would like to change in this relationship.
33. The ways this relationship contributes to my self-confidence.
34. How this relationship undermines my confidence.
35. The fun I derive from this relationship.
36. The disappointments I feel about this relationship.
37. What I would alter about this relationship if I could.
38. How this relationship builds my confidence in myself.
39. Ways in which this relationship detracts from my self-confidence.
40. The playful aspects of this relationship.
41. The displeasure I feel about this relationship.
42. The modifications that are needed in this relationship.
43. The self-esteem I derive from this relationship.
44. How my self-esteem suffers in this relationship.
45. The joy I experience in this relationship.
Male marriage counselor
46. The frustrations I feel in this relationship.
47. Things I would like to change in this relationship.
48. The ways this relationship contributes to my self-confidence.
49. How this relationship undermines my confidence.
50. The fun I derive from this relationship.
51. The disappointments I feel about this relationship.
52. What I would alter about this relationship if I could.
53. How this relationship builds my confidence in myself.
54. Ways in which this relationship detracts from my self-confidence.
55. The playful aspects of this relationship.
56. The displeasure I feel about this relationship.
57. The modifications that are needed in this relationship.
58. The self-esteem I derive from this relationship.
59. How my self-esteem suffers in this relationship.
60. The joy I experience in this relationship.
TOPICS SURVEY - Part C
Female marriage counselor
61. What I like about my partner.
62. My partner's contributions to this relationship.
63. What my partner likes about this relationship.
64. What my partner dislikes about me.
65. How sensual my partner is as a lover.
66. The positive features of my partner.
67. The amount of time my partner devotes to this relationship.
68. What my partner enjoys about this relationship.
69. What my partner would like to change about me.
70. The tender‚ sexual aspects of my partner.
71. The desirable aspects of my partner.
72. My partner's degree of involvement in this relationship.
73. The aspects of this relationship that appeal to my partner.
74. Those aspects of myself which my partner objects to.
75. How passionate and physical my partner is.
Male marriage counselor
76. What I like about my partner.
77. My partner's contributions to this relationship.
78. What my partner likes about this relationship.
79. What my partner dislikes about me.
80. How sensual my partner is as a lover.
81. The positive features of my partner.
82. The amount of time my partner devotes to this relationship.
83. What my partner enjoys about this relationship.
84. What my partner would like to change about me.
85. The tender‚ sexual aspects of my partner.
86. The desirable aspects of my partner.
87. My partner's degree of involvement in this relationship.
88. The aspects of this relationship that appeal to my partner.
89. Those aspects of myself which my partner objects to.
90. How passionate and physical my partner is.
TOPICS SURVEY - Part D
Female marriage counselor
91. The assignment of domestic responsibilities in our relationship.
92. How we handle financial decisions in this relationship.
93. How often my partner and I discuss our relationship.
94. The attitude my partner and I have toward children.
95. How sex-roles characterize this relationship.
96. Who is assigned to do the household tasks.
97. How we deal with money management issues.
98. How often relationship-conversations take place.
99. What my partner and I think about having children.
100. How egalitarian (sex-role fair) this relationship is.
101. The procedures we use to assign household responsibilities.
102. How we decide to spend money in this relationship.
103. How often we discuss relationship issues.
104. The preferences my partner and I have about children.
105. How traditional (sex-roles) this relationship is.
Male marriage counselor
106. The assignment of domestic responsibilities in our relationship.
107. How we handle financial decisions in this relationship.
108. How often my partner and I discuss our relationship.
109. The attitude my partner and I have toward children.
110. How sex-roles characterize this relationship.
111. Who is assigned to do the household tasks.
112. How we deal with money management issues.
113. How often relationship-conversations take place.
114. What my partner and I think about having children.
115. How egalitarian (sex-role fair) this relationship is.
116. The procedures we use to assign household responsibilities.
117. How we decide to spend money in this relationship.
118. How often we discuss relationship issues.
119. The preferences my partner and I have about children.
120. How traditional (sex-roles) this relationship is.
TOPICS SURVEY - Part E
Female marriage counselor
121. How stressful this relationship is.
122. How my partner and I solve relationship problems.
123. How work(school) affects our relationship.
124. How often we express anger to each other.
125. Our respective vulnerabilities in this relationship.
126. The demands and pressures in this relationship.
127. How my partner and I handle relationship conflict.
128. The impact of work(school) on our relationship.
129. The ways we express resentment toward each other.
130. The sense of personal exposure we feel in this relationship.
131. The psychological discomfort in this relationship.
132. How my partner and I solve disagreements in this relationship.
133. How work(school) influences our intimate interactions.
134. How we express irritation/impatience to one another.
135. The risk of hurt and loss involved with this relationship.
Male marriage counselor
136. How stressful this relationship is.
137. How my partner and I solve relationship problems.
138. How work(school) affects our relationship.
139. How often we express anger to each other.
140. Our respective vulnerabilities in this relationship.
141. The demands and pressures in this relationship.
142. How my partner and I handle relationship conflict.
143. The impact of work(school) on our relationship.
144. The ways we express resentment toward each other.
145. The sense of personal exposure we feel in this relationship.
146. The psychological discomfort in this relationship.
147. How my partner and I solve disagreements in this relationship.
148. How work(school) influences our intimate interactions.
149. How we express irritation/impatience to one another.
150. The risk of hurt and loss involved with this relationship.
اعتبار: آلفا کرونباخ برای 25 خرده بخش زن مقیاس در دامنه 0.87 تا 0.97 با میانگین 0.93 و برای بخش مرد 0.87 تا 0.97 با میانگین 0.93 است.
شرح سایت روان سنجی: این مقیاس میزان تمایل مردم را نسبت به درمیان گذاشتن اطلاعات درباره روابط خصوصی با مشاور را اندازه گیری می کند. از آزمودنی خواسته می شود تا روشن کند کدام جستارها را با مشاور زناشویی – مرد، زن – در میان خواهد گذاشت. در هر بخش ، 15 گویه نخست درباره مشاور زن و 15 گویه پس از آن درباره مشاور مرد است . 25 خرده مقیاس دارد. 1) رابطه عاشقانه، 2) جنبه جنسی، 3) نزدیکی هیجانی، 4) سازگاری جنسی، 5) تعهد در رابطه، 6) ناکامی در ارتباط، 7) دگرگونی ارتباط، 8) افزایش عزت نفس، 9) فرسایش عزت نفس، 10) ارتباط سرگرم کننده، 11) شریک جنسی مثبت، 12) شریک زندگی همراه( سهیم)، 13) شریک زندگی خواستنی، 14) شریک زندگی نخواستنی، 15) شریک زندگی هوسران، 16) پاسخگوی بودن به خانواده، 17) تصمیم گیری مالی، 18) رابطه مبتنی بر گفتگو، 19) مسائل کودکان، 20) مسائل نقش جنسی، 21) تنش در رابطه، 22) حل تعارض ها، 23) تاثیر شغل، 24) ابراز خشم و 25) آسیب پذیری رابطه
چگونگی دستیابی
نمره گذاری
Female marriage counselor
A = I would not be willing to discuss this topic with a female marriage counselor.
B = I would be slightly willing to discuss this topic with a female marriage counselor.
C = I would be moderately willing to discuss this topic with a female marriage counselor.
D = I would be mostly willing to discuss this topic with a female marriage counselor.
E = I would be totally willing to discuss this topic with a female marriage counselor.
Male marriage counselor
A = I would not be willing to discuss this topic with a male marriage counselor.
B = I would be slightly willing to discuss this topic with a male marriage counselor.
C = I would be moderately willing to discuss this topic with a male marriage counselor.
D = I would be mostly willing to discuss this topic with a male marriage counselor.
E = I would be totally willing to discuss this topic with a male marriage counselor.
1. RELATIONSHIP LOVE: (ITEMS 1‚ 6‚ 11 & 16‚ 21‚ 26)
2. SEXUAL ASPECTS: (ITEMS 2‚ 7‚ 12 & 17‚ 22‚ 27)
3. EMOTIONAL CLOSENESS: (ITEMS 3‚ 8‚ 13 & 18‚ 23‚ 28)
4. SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY: (ITEMS 4‚ 9‚ 14 & 19‚ 24‚ 29)
5. RELATIONSHIP COMMITMENT: (ITEMS 5‚ 10‚ 15 & 20‚ 25‚ 30)
6. RELATIONSHIP FRUSTRATIONS: (ITEMS 31‚ 36‚ 41 & 46‚ 51‚ 56)
7. RELATIONSHIP CHANGE: (ITEMS 32‚ 37‚ 42 & 47‚ 52‚ 57)
8. SELF-ESTEEM ENHANCEMENT: (ITEMS 33‚ 38‚ 43‚ & 48‚ 53‚ 58)
9. SELF-ESTEEM EROSION: (ITEMS 34‚ 39‚ 44‚ & 49‚ 54‚ 59)
10. RELATIONSHIP FUN: (ITEMS 35‚ 40‚ 45 & 50‚ 55‚ 60)
11. POSITIVE PARTNER ATTRIBUTES: (ITEMS 61‚ 66‚ 71 & 76‚ 81‚ 86)
12. PARTNER'S CONTRIBUTIONS: (ITEMS 62‚ 67‚ 72 & 77‚ 82‚ 87)
13. PARTNER'S LIKES: (ITEMS 63‚ 68‚ 73 & 78‚ 83‚ 88)
14. PARTNER'S DISLIKES: (ITEMS 64‚ 69‚ 74 & 79‚ 84‚ 89)
15. PARTNER'S SENSUALITY: (ITEMS 65‚ 70‚ 75 & 80‚ 85‚ 90)
16. DOMESTIC RESPONSIBILITIES: (ITEMS 91‚ 96‚ 101 & 116‚ 131‚ 146)
17. FINANCIAL DECISION-MAKING: (ITEMS 92‚ 97‚ 102 & 117‚ 132‚ 147)
18. RELATIONSHIP DISCUSSIONS: (ITEMS 93‚ 98‚ 103 & 118‚ 133‚ 148)
19. CHILDREN ISSUES: (ITEMS 94‚ 99‚ 104 & 119‚ 134‚ 149)
20. SEX-ROLE ISSUES: (ITEMS 95‚ 100‚ 105 & 120‚ 135‚ 150)
21. RELATIONSHIP STRESS: (ITEMS 121‚ 126‚ 131 & 136‚ 141‚ 146)
22. CONFLICT RESOLUTION: (ITEMS 122‚ 127‚ 132 & 137‚ 142‚ 147)
23. CAREER IMPACT: (ITEMS 123‚ 128‚ 133 & 138‚ 143‚ 148)
24. ANGER EXPRESSION: (ITEMS 124‚ 129‚ 134 & 139‚ 144‚ 149)
25. RELATIONSHIP VULNERABILITIES: (ITEMS 125‚ 130‚ 135 & 140‚ 145‚ 150)
منبع برای آگاهی بیشتر
Snell‚ W. E.‚ Jr.‚ Hampton‚ B. R.‚ & McManus‚ P. (1992). The impact of counselor and participant gender on willingness to discuss relational topics: Development of the Relational Disclosure Scale. Journal of Counseling and Development‚ 70‚ 409-416