Frequency and Acceptability of Partner Behavior

Frequency and Acceptability of Partner Behavior (FAPBI)
Christensen and Jacobson‚ 1997. Doss and Christensen’s‚ 2006
فراوانی و پسندیدن رفتار شریک زندگی
Positive Partner Behaviors
1. In the past month‚ my partner was physically affectionate (e.g.‚ held my hand‚ kissed me‚ hugged me‚ put arm around me‚ responded when I initiated affection)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was physically affectionate at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
2. In the past month‚ my partner was verbally affectionate (e.g.‚ complimented me‚ told me he/she loves me‚ said nice things)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was verbally affectionate at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
3. In the past month‚ my partner did housework (include times when partner initiated the housework as well as when you suggested it and partner did it—e.g.‚ cooked‚ did the dishes‚ cleaned the house‚ did the laundry‚ went grocery shopping‚ washed car‚ took out the trash)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner did housework at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
4. In the past month‚ my partner did child care (e.g.‚ took care of the children‚ helped them with homework‚ played with them‚ disciplined them) [NOTE: If you and your partner do not care for children‚ please write N/A next to this item‚ leave the bubbles blank‚ and move on to the next item.]
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner did childcare at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
5. In the past month‚ my partner confided in me (e.g.‚ shared with me what he/she felt‚ confided in me his/her successes and failures)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner confided in you at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
6. In the past month‚ my partner engaged in sexual activity with me (e.g.‚ can include sexual intercourse or any other significant sexual activity‚ whether initiated by you or your partner)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner engaged in sexual activity at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
7. In the past month‚ my partner was supportive of me when I had problems (e.g.‚ listened to my problems‚ sympathized with me‚ helped me out with my difficulties)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was supportive of you at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
8. In the past month‚ my partner did social or recreational activities with me (e.g.‚ went to movies‚ dinner‚ concerts‚ hiking‚ etc. with me‚ include times when partner initiated these events as well as times when you or others initiated them)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner did social activities at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
9. In the past month‚ my partner socialized with my family or my friends (e.g.‚ visited my family or friends with me‚ was responsive when they called‚ joined me for outings with my family or friends)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner socialized with your friends at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
10. In the past month‚ my partner discussed problems in our relationship with me and tried to solve those problems (e.g.‚ talked with me about relationship problems‚ tried to constructively solve those problems)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner discussed problems with you at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
11. In the past month‚ my partner participated in the financial responsibilities of the family (e.g.‚ helped make financial decisions‚ paid bills‚ consulted me before making major purchases)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner participated in finances at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
12. Positive behavior(s) not included that you found important in the last month. Behavior: ____________________________
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner did this positive behavior at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
Negative Partner Behaviors
13. In the past month‚ my partner was critical of me (e.g.‚ blamed me for problems‚ put down what I did‚ made accusations about me)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was critical of you at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
14. In the past month‚ my partner was dishonest with me (e.g.‚ lied to me‚ failed to tell me things I wanted or needed to know‚ twisted the facts so I didn’t find out what really happened)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was dishonest with you at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
15. In the past month‚ my partner was inappropriate with members of the opposite sex (e.g.‚ was too flirtatious with other men/women‚ had secret meetings with them‚ made passes at them‚ or had affairs)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was sexually inappropriate at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
16. In the past month‚ my partner did not follow through with his/her agreements (e.g.‚ didn’t do what she/he said she/he would do‚ went back on his/her word)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner did not follow agreements at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
17. In the past month‚ my partner was verbally abusive with me (e.g.‚ swore at me‚ called me names‚ yelled or screamed)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was verbally abusive at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
18. In the past month‚ my partner was physically abusive with me (e.g.‚ pushed‚ shoved‚ kicked‚ bit or hit me‚ or threw things)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was physically abusive at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
19. In the past month‚ my partner was controlling and bossy (e.g.‚ did things without consulting with me first‚ insisted on his/her way‚ didn’t listen to what I wanted‚ manipulated things so she/he got what she/he wanted)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner was controlling and bossy at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
20. In the past month‚ my partner invaded my privacy (e.g.‚ opened my mail‚ listened in on my conversations with friends or family)
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner invaded your privacy at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
21. In the past month‚ my partner engaged in addictive behavior (such as smoking‚ using drugs‚ drinking alcohol‚ etc.) that bothered me. NOTE: Please include what the behavior was ________________.
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner engaged in this addiction at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
22. Negative behavior(s) not included that you found important in the last month. Behavior: ___________________________
Frequency: _______ times per: Day Week Month (circle one)
Acceptability: How acceptable is it to you that your partner did this negative behavior at this frequency in the past month?
Totally Unacceptable 0‚ 1‚ 2‚ 3‚ 4‚ 5‚ 6‚ 7‚ 8‚ 9 Totally Acceptable
Items of Most Concern to You:
Out of the behaviors you rated on this questionnaire‚ what are the 5 behaviors (positive or negative) that were of most concern to you or that troubled you the most in the last month? For example‚ if item 14 was of most concern‚ you would write the number 14‚ then indicate the issue was criticism (see example below). PLEASE DO NOT put more than one item on each line‚ and please do your best to chose 5 items as requested EXAMPLE: Item of Most Concern: Item # on this questionnaire 14 Item Topic critical of me
WHAT IS YOUR:
Item of Most Concern: Item # on this questionnaire ______ Item Topic
Item of 2nd Most Concern: Item # on this questionnaire ______ Item Topic
Item of 3rd Most Concern: Item # on this questionnaire ______ Item Topic
Item of 4th Most Concern: Item # on this questionnaire ______ Item Topic
Item of 5th Most Concern: Item # on this questionnaire ______ Item Topic
شرح سایت روان سنجی: این ابزار به اندازه گیری رفتارهای مثبت و منفی شریک زندگی می پردازد. آزمودنی نخست فراوانی هر رفتار و سپس میزان قابل قبول بودن رفتار را مشخص می کند. چهار خرده مقیاس : محبت، نزدیکی، درخواست و پیمان شکنی دارد.
Affection‚ Closeness‚ Demand‚ and Violation
Positive Behaviors
Affection
1. Being verbally affectionate with the partner
2. Being physically affectionate with the partner
3. Engaging in sexual activity with the partner
Closeness
1. Spending time with the partner
2. Confiding in the partner
3. Participating in financial decisions
4. Participating in child care
5. Participating in social activities with the partner
6. Being supportive of the partner
7. Discussing relationship problems with the partner
8. Participating in housework
Negative Behaviors
Demand
1. Criticizing the partner
2. Verbally abusing the partner
3. Being controlling and bossy of the partner
Violation
1. Flirting and engaging in affairs
2. Being dishonest with the partner
3. Engaging in addictive behaviors
4. Physically abusing the partner
5. Invading the partner’s privacy
6. Breaking agreements with the partner
اعتبار: آلفا کرونباخ "پسندیدن" رفتارهای مثبت: شوهران 0.85 و زنان 0.79، "رفتارهای منفی" شوهران 0.65 و رنان 0.69 . آلفا کرونباخ برای "فراوانی "رفتارهای مثبت شوهران 0.83 و زنان 0.80 ، رفتارهای منفی شوهران 0.73و زنان 0.71 (داس و همکاران، 2005)
این ابزار در زمینه Integrative behavioral couples therapy است که آن را "زوج درمانی تلفیقی" و " زوج درمانی یگپارچه نگر"، به فارسی برگردان کرده اند.
چگونگی دستیابی
منبع برای آگاهی بیشتر
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