Gottman Sound Relationship House Questionnaires- Quality of Sex
Quality of Sex‚ Romance‚ and Passion in the Relationship
John M. Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman‚ 1999‚ 200-2004
آوای رابطه در خانه- عشق ، کیفیت رابطه جنسی و رابطه عاشقانه
For each item check the one box below that applies to your relationship right now:
1. Our relationship is
· Romantic and passionate
· Becoming passionless‚ that is‚ the fire is going out
2. I would say that
· My partner is still verbally affectionate
· My partner is not very verbally affectionate
3. I would say that
· My partner expresses love and admiration to me
· My partner expresses love or admiration less frequently these days
4. I would say that
· We do touch each other a fair amount
· We rarely touch each other these days
5. I would say that
· My partner courts me sexually
· My partner does not court me sexually
6. I would say that
· We do cuddle with one another
· We rarely cuddle with one another
7. I would say that
· We still have our tender and passionate moments
· We have few tender or passionate moments
8. I would say that
· Our sex life is fine
· There are definite problems in this area
9. I would say that
· The frequency of sex is not a problem
· The frequency of sex is a problem
10. I would say that
· The satisfaction I get from sex is not a problem
· The satisfaction I get from sex is a problem
11. I would say that
· Being able to just talk about sex‚ or talk about sexual problems is not a serious issue between us
· Being able to just talk about sex‚ or talk about sexual problems is a serious issue between us
12. I would say that
· The two of us generally want the same thing sexually
· The two of us want different things sexually
13. I would say that
· Differences in desire are not an issue in this relationship
· Differences in desire are an issue in this relationship
14. I would say that
· The amount of love in our lovemaking is not a problem
· The amount of love in our lovemaking is a problem
15. I would say that
· The satisfaction my partner gets from sex is not a problem
· The satisfaction my partner gets from sex is a problem
16. I would say that
· My partner is still physically very affectionate toward me
· My partner is not very physically affectionate toward me
17. I would say that
· I feel romantic toward my partner
· I do not feel very romantic toward my partner
18. I would say that
· My partner finds me sexually attractive
· My partner does not find me sexually attractive
19. I would say that
· I find my partner sexually attractive
· I do not view my partner as sexually attractive
20. In this relationship
· I feel romantic and passionate toward my partner‚ or
· I feel passionless‚ my own fire is going out
21. In this relationship
· My partner is romantic and passionate‚ or‚
· My partner is passionless‚ that is‚ the fire is going out in my partner
22. I would say that
· The satisfaction I get from sex is not a problem
· The satisfaction I get from sex is a problem
23. I would say that
· My partner compliments my appearance
· My partner does not compliment my appearance
24. I would say that
· I am satisfied by how we initiate sex
· I am dissatisfied with the ways we initiate sex
25. I would say that
· It is possible for me to refuse sex and have it be okay
· I am unable to refuse sex and have it be okay with my partner
26. I would say that
· I hardly ever have sex when I don’t want to
· It seems as if I often have sex when I don’t want to
27. I would say that
· We have many ways to satisfy one another sexually
· We have very few ways to satisfy one another sexually
28. Overall I would say that
· We are good sexual partners
· We are not very good sexual partners
شرح سایت روان سنجی: "جان گاتمن" فردی صاحب نام در زمینه مطالعات علمی در زمینه ازدواج برای چهار دهه است. او مدلی "1994" و ابزارهایی برای پیش بینی و پایایی زندگی مشترک بر پایه کارهای بالینی ارائه کرد. این ابزار به منظور اندازه گیری کیفیت رابطه میان زن و شوهر پدید آمده است.
فرم 5 ماده ای با خرده مقیاس های زیر در همین پایگاه وجود دارد.
Friendship & Intimacy
• Love Maps
• Fondness and Admiration
• Turning Toward or Away
• Emotional Distance and Loneliness
Conflict
• Harsh Startup
• The Four Horsemen
• Gridlock on Perpetual Issues
• Accepting Influence
• Compromise
Conflict Processes
• Flooding
• Negative Sentiment Override
• Effective Repair Attempts
Meaning
• Shared Meaning Rituals
• Shared Meaning Roles
• Shared Meaning Goals
• Shared Meaning Symbols
چگونگی دستیابی
منبع برای آگاهی بیشتر
Gottman‚ J. (1999). The marriage clinic. New York: W.W. Norton.
Gottman‚ J. M. (1999). The marriage clinic: A scientifically based marital therapy. New York‚ NY: W.W. Norton & Company
Gottman‚ J.M. & Silver‚ N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York‚ NY: Crown Publishers‚ Inc.