Relationship Beliefs Inventory (RBI)
Eidelson & Epstein‚ 1982
سیاهه باورهای رابطه با جفت
1. If your partner expresses disagreement with your ideas‚ he/she probably does not think highly of you.
2. I do not expect my partner to sense all my moods.*
3. Damages done early in a relationship probably cannot be reversed.
4. I get upset if I think I have not completely satisfied my partner sexually.
5. Men and women have the same basic emotion needs.*
6. I cannot accept it when my partner disagrees with me.
7. If I have to tell my partner that something is important to me‚ it does not mean that she/he is insensitive to me.*
8. My partner does not seem capable of behaving other than she/he does now.
9. If I’m not in the mood for sex when my partner is‚ I don’t get upset about it.*
10. Misunderstandings between partners generally are due to inborn differences in psychological makeups of men and women.
11. I take it as a personal insult when my partner disagrees with an important idea of mine.
12. I get very upset if my partner does not recognize how I am feeling and I have to tell him/her.
13. A partner can learn to become more responsive to his/her partner’s needs.*
14. A good sexual partner can get himself/herself aroused for sex whenever necessary.
15. Men and women probably will never understand the opposite sex very well.
16. I like it when my partner presents views different from mine.*
17. People who have a close relationship can sense each other’s needs as if they could read each other’s minds.
18. Just because my partner has acted in ways that upset me does not mean that she/he will do so in the future.*
19. If I cannot perform well sexually whenever my partner is in the mood‚ I would consider that I have a problem.
20. Men and women need the same basic things out of a relationship.*
21. I get very upset when my partner and I cannot see things the same way.
22. It is important to me for my partner to anticipate my needs by sensing changes in my moods.
23. A partner who hurts you badly once probably will hurt you again.
24. I can feel OK about my lovemaking even if my partner does not achieve orgasm.*
25. Biological differences between men and women are not major causes of couples’ problems.*
26. I cannot tolerate it when my partner argues with me.
27. A partner should know what you are thinking or feeling without you having to tell.
28. If my partner wants to change‚ I believe that she/he can do it.*
29. If my sexual partner does not get satisfied completely‚ it does not mean that I have failed.*
30. One of the major causes of marital problems is that men and women have different emotional needs.
31. When my partner and I disagree‚ I feel like our relationship is falling apart.
32. People who love each other know exactly what each other’s thoughts are without a word ever being said.
33. If you don’t like the way a relationship is going‚ you can make it better.*
34. Some difficulties in my sexual performance do not mean personal failure to me.*
35. You can’t really understand someone of the opposite sex.
36. I do not doubt my partner’s feelings for me when we argue.*
37. If you have to ask your partner for something‚ it shows that he/she was not “tuned into” your needs.
38. I do not expect my partner to be able to change.
39. When I do not seem to be performing well sexually‚ I get upset.
40. Men and women will always be mysteries to each other.
*indicates reverse-scored item
شرح سایت روان سنجی: این ابزار برای سنجش باورها نزد دو جنس و شناسایی مواردی که موجب آسیب آن می شود، پدید امده است. پنج خرده مقیاس " مخرب دانستن اختلاف"، " انتظار ذهن خوانی"، " عدم تغییر پذیری جفت"، "انتظار کمال رابطه جنسی " و " پذیرفتن تفاوت جنسی" دارد.
خرده مقیاس ها و اعتبار:
‘‘Disagreement is destructive‚’’ ‘‘Mindreading is expected‚’’ ‘‘Partners cannot change‚’’ ‘‘Sexual perfection is expected‚’’ and ‘‘The sexes are different.’’
The Cronbach alpha coefficients for the five scales range from .72 to .81.
نمره گذاری
5 = I strongly believe that the statement is true.
4 = I believe that the statement is true.
3 = I believe that the statement is probably true‚ or more true than false.
2 = I believe that the statement is probably false‚ or more false than true.
1 = I believe that the statement if false.
چگونگی دستیابی
منبع برای آگاهی بیشتر
Epstein‚ N.‚ & Eidelson‚ R. J. (1981). Unrealistic beliefs of clinical couples: their relationship to expectations‚ goals and satisfaction. The American Journal of Family Therapy‚ 9‚ 13-22.
Eidelson‚ Roy J.; Epstein‚ Norman (1982). Cognition and relationship maladjustment: Development of a measure of dysfunctional relationship beliefs. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology‚ 50(5): 715-720