Gottman Sound Relationship House Questionnaires- Commitment
John M. Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman‚ 1999‚ 200-2004
آوای رابطه در خانه- تعهد
1. I feel confident that my partner will stay in this relationship even if we are going through hard times.
2. When I am feeling bad‚ my partner is willing to meet my needs.
3. During a fight‚ my partner does not threaten to leave me.
4. I am committed to this relationship.
5. I consider my relationship rock solid.
6. I would refuse to have sex with a person other than my partner.
7. I will sometimes make major sacrifices for my partner even if it goes against what I need.
8. I make sure that my partner feels loved by me.
9. When my partner is sick‚ I think it is very important that I take care of him or her.
10.When I compromise with my partner‚ I don’t feel controlled and manipulated.
11.Being a team is sometimes more important to me than my own needs
12.I feel that my partner’s financial security is in part my responsibility.
13.If my partner were in emotional trouble‚ I would be there 100%.
14.After an argument‚ I am not thinking that I could be happier with someone else.
15.During a fight‚ I do not threaten to leave my partner.
16.I am not waiting for someone better to come along.
17.We are not usually engaged in a power struggle.
18.I want to stay with my partner forever.
19.I would avoid flirting if it made my partner feel insecure.
20.No matter what’s going on‚ I never fantasize about divorce or separation.
21.No matter how bad things get I never long for the days when I was single.
22.I never envy my friends who are single.
23.I never fantasize about what life would be like being someone else’s partner.
24.I love it when my partner and I dream about our future together.
25.I love thinking about my partner and I growing old together
26.My worst nightmare is my partner dying before me.
27.I feel loved by my partner.
شرح سایت روان سنجی: "جان گاتمن" فردی صاحب نام در زمینه مطالعات علمی در زمینه ازدواج برای چهار دهه است. او مدلی "1994" و ابزارهایی برای پیش بینی و پایایی زندگی مشترک بر پایه کارهای بالینی ارائه کرد. این ابزار به منظور اندازه گیری تعهد در رابطه میان زن و شوهر پدید آمده است.
فرم 5 ماده ای با خرده مقیاس های زیر در همین پایگاه وجود دارد.
Friendship & Intimacy
• Love Maps
• Fondness and Admiration
• Turning Toward or Away
• Emotional Distance and Loneliness
Conflict
• Harsh Startup
• The Four Horsemen
• Gridlock on Perpetual Issues
• Accepting Influence
• Compromise
Conflict Processes
• Flooding
• Negative Sentiment Override
• Effective Repair Attempts
Meaning
• Shared Meaning Rituals
• Shared Meaning Roles
• Shared Meaning Goals
• Shared Meaning Symbols
نمره گذاری
Strongly Disagree”‚ “Disagree”‚ “Neither Agree nor Disagree”‚ “Agree”‚ or “Strongly Agree
چگونگی دستیابی
منبع برای آگاهی بیشتر
Gottman‚ J. (1999). The marriage clinic. New York: W.W. Norton.
Gottman‚ J. M. (1999). The marriage clinic: A scientifically based marital therapy. New York‚ NY: W.W. Norton & Company
Gottman‚ J.M. & Silver‚ N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York‚ NY: Crown Publishers‚ Inc.