Gottman Sound Relationship House Questionnaires- TRUST
John M. Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman‚ 1999‚ 200-2004
آوای رابطه در خانه- اعتماد
1. There were important times when my partner has not been there for me emotionally when I was really in need.
2. My partner has been or is emotionally involved with someone else‚ which feels like a betrayal.
3. My partner has been or is sexually involved with someone else‚ which feels like a betrayal.
4. I don’t have much trust in any relationship.
5. Once‚ when I really needed to turn to my partner for emotional support‚ I was terribly disappointed and left utterly alone.
6. Sometimes I don’t feel important to my partner.
7. My partner has forced me to do some things against my principles‚ or to do things that I find objectionable‚ repulsive‚ or disgusting.
8. My partner lies to me.
9. There are some wounds my partner has created that can never fully heal between us.
10.My trust in this relationship has been seriously shattered.
11.I don’t feel that I am my partner’s first or even major priority in his or her life.
12.My partner has cheated me and I feel betrayed by that.
13.My partner has betrayed me financially.
14.When going through hard times in our relationship‚ I don’t feel I can count on my partner to be there for me.
15.Our vows aren’t really sacred to my partner.
16.My partner can be deceitful with me in many ways.
17.When I get sick I am abandoned by my partner.
18.I can’t really count on my partner.
19.If I should have financial problems my financial problems are totally my own. I cannot rely on my partner to help me out.
20.I suspect that my partner has betrayed our relationship contract in the past.
21.My partner is not really loyal to me.
شرح سایت روان سنجی: "جان گاتمن" فردی صاحب نام در زمینه مطالعات علمی در زمینه ازدواج برای چهار دهه است. او مدلی "1994" و ابزارهایی برای پیش بینی و پایایی زندگی مشترک بر پایه کارهای بالینی ارائه کرد. این ابزار به منظور اندازه گیری اعتماد در رابطه میان زن و شوهر پدید آمده است.
فرم 5 ماده ای با خرده مقیاس های زیر در همین پایگاه وجود دارد.
Friendship & Intimacy
• Love Maps
• Fondness and Admiration
• Turning Toward or Away
• Emotional Distance and Loneliness
Conflict
• Harsh Startup
• The Four Horsemen
• Gridlock on Perpetual Issues
• Accepting Influence
• Compromise
Conflict Processes
• Flooding
• Negative Sentiment Override
• Effective Repair Attempts
Meaning
• Shared Meaning Rituals
• Shared Meaning Roles
• Shared Meaning Goals
• Shared Meaning Symbols
نمره گذاری
Strongly Disagree”‚ “Disagree”‚ “Neither Agree nor Disagree”‚ “Agree”‚ or “Strongly Agree
چگونگی دستیابی
منبع برای آگاهی بیشتر
Gottman‚ J. (1999). The marriage clinic. New York: W.W. Norton.
Gottman‚ J. M. (1999). The marriage clinic: A scientifically based marital therapy. New York‚ NY: W.W. Norton & Company
Gottman‚ J.M. & Silver‚ N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York‚ NY: Crown Publishers‚ Inc.