Marital Communication Inventory (MCI)
Bienvenu‚ 1970
سیاهه ارتباط زناشویی
1. Do you and your spouse discuss the manner in which the family income should be spent?
2. Does he/she discuss his/her work and Interests with you?
3. Do you have a tendency to keep your feelings to yourself7
4. Is your husband's/wife's tone of voice irritating?
5. Does he/she have a tendency to say things which would be batter left unsaid?
6. Are your mealtime conversations easy and pleasant?
7. Do you find yourself keeping after him/her about his/her faults?
8. Does he/she seem to under-stand your feelings?
9. Does your spouse nag you?
10.Does she/he listen to what you have to say?
11.Does it upset you to a great extent when your husband/wife is angry with you?
12.Does s/he pay you compliments and say nice things to you?
13.Is it hard to understand your husband's/ wife's feelings and attitudes??
14.Is she/he affectionate toward you?
15.Does she/he let you finish talking before responding to what you are saying?
16.Do you and your husband/ wife remain silent for long periods when you are angry with one another?
17.Does she/he allow you to pursue your own interests and activities even if they are different from his?
18.Does she/he try to lift your spirits when you are depressed or discouraged?
19.Do you avoid expressing disagreement with him/her because you are afraid s/he will get angry?
20.Does your spouse complain that you don't understand her/him?
21.Do you let your husband/ wife know when you are displeased with him/her?
22.Do you feel s/he says one thing but really means another?
23.Do you help her/him understand you by saying how you think‚ feel‚ and believe?
24.Are you and your husband/ wife able to disagree with one another without losing your temper?
25.Do the two of you argue a lot over money?
26.When a problem arises between you and your husband/wife are you able to discuss it without losing control of your emotions?
27.Do you find it difficult to express your true feelings to him/her?
28.Does s/he offer you cooperation‚ encouragement‚ and emotional support in your role (duties) as a wife/husband?
29.Does your husband/ wife insult you when angry with you?
30.Do you and your husband/ wife engage in outside interests and activities together?
31.Does your husband/wife accuse you of not listening to what s/he says?
32.Does s/he let you know that you are important to him?
33.Is it easier to confide in others rather than in your husband /wife?
34.Doe s/he confide in others rather than in you?
35.Do you feel that in most matters your husband/ wife knows what you are trying to say?
36.Does s/he monopolize the conversation very much?
37.Do you and your husband/ wife talk about things which are of interest to both of you?
38.Does your husband/wife sulk or pout very much?
39.Do you discuss sexual matters with him/her?
40.Do you and your husband/ wife discuss your personal problems with each other?
41.Can your husband/wife tell what kind of day you have had without asking?
42.Do you admit that you are wrong when you know that you are wrong about something?
43.Do you and your husband/ wife talk over pleasant things that happen during the day?
44.Do you hesitate to discuss certain things with your husband/wife because you are afraid s/he might hurt your feelings?
45.Do you pretend you are listening to him/her when actually you are not listening?
46.Do the two of you ever sit down just to talk things over?
شرح سایت روان سنجی: این ابزار زمینه، شیوه و سبک مهارت های ارتباطی نزد همسران چون: گوش کردن، فهمیدن یکدیگر و خود را اندازه گیری می کند.
اعتبار: دو نیمه کردن 0.93 (بیانویو، 1970)، بازآزمایی 0.94 پس از دو ماه (راپا پورت، 1976)
نمره گذاری
Usually‚ Sometimes‚ Seldom‚ Never
چگونگی دستیابی
منبع برای آگاهی بیشتر
Bienvenu‚ Millard J. (1970). Measurement of marital communication. The Family Coordinator‚ 19(1)‚ 26-31.
Bienvenu‚ Millard J. (1971). An Interpersonal Communication Inventory. Journal of Communication 21(4):381 - 388
Rappaport‚ A. (1976). Conjugal Relationship Enhancement program. In Olson‚ D. (Ed.)‚ Treating relationships. Lake Mills‚ Iowa: Graphic Publishing Co.‚ Inc.
Vijayalakshmi‚ Olaganatha P. (1997). Enriching Marital Communication and Marital Adjustment of Couples from India Living in the United States. Oregon State University. Doctoral Thesis.