Reality Questionnaire
Jessica Miller and Brandi Tedder (2011)
پرسشنامه واقعیت در رابطه عاشقانه
In my current relationship:
1. I do not feel comfortable disclosing what I need or want from our relationship.
2. I am under-benefited.
3. I feel like my partner is romantically interested in me.
4. I see a future with my partner.
5. I am fully committed to my partner.
6. My partner attempts to make our interactions enjoyable.
7. My partner is willing to do things with my friends or family.
8. My partner is not willing to compromise.
9. I am confident about myself as an intimate partner.
10.I feel that I should be able to disclose intimate‚ personal things about myself without hesitation.
11.My partner and I feel the same way about each other.
12.My partner displays an appropriate amount of affection towards me.
13.My partner’s feelings are as strong for me as mine are for them.
14.I do not feel my partner is committed to me.
15.My partner and I use open communication.
16.I am patient and forgiving of my partner.
17.My partner and I work together to solve conflicts.
18.I am happy with my role in the relationship.
19.My partner sincerely reveals to me their feelings and experiences.
20.I expect the same standard of behavior from my partner as they expect of me.
21.I am happy with the amount of physical affection.
22.I do not want my relationship to last.
23.My partner is strongly motivated to devote their time and effort to our relationship.
24.My partner listens to me.
25.I feel like my partner does things to maintain our relationship.
26.My partner tries to understand why I am upset.
27.I am happy with my partner’s role in the relationship.
28.I intimately disclose who I really am‚ openly and fully.
29.My partner does not contribute as much to our relationship (financially) as I do.
30.My partner compliments me often.
31.I am strongly motivated to devote time and effort.
32.My partner often discusses our future together.
33.I feel comfortable voicing my preferences in the relationship.
34.I am not very motivated to be involved.
35.I feel comfortable letting my partner know when I am upset.
36.My partner is not dependable.
37.As a whole‚ my partner’s disclosures about our relationship are more positive than negative.
38.My partner supports me in my endeavors as much as I support them.
39.I do not feel cared for.
40.I am certain my feelings for my partner will not change.
41.My partner keeps their promises
42.My partner does not try to understand my needs.
43.I experience honesty from my partner.
44.My partner and I are able to successfully reach conflict resolution.
45.My partner feels responsible for their part.
شرح سایت روان سنجی: روابط عاشقانه از تجربه های انسانی است. دیدن واقعیت و چشم داشت ها از این رابطه بر خشنودی طرفین تاثیر گذار است. این ابزار درجه واقعیت در رابطه عاشقانه را با نه خرده مقیاس : بازسازی و نگهداری رفتار، تعهد، کیفیت ارتباط، حل تعارض، ابراز خود ، محبت، اعتماد، نقش در رابطه و برابری حقوق طرفین اندازه گیری می کند.
پدید آورندگان این ابزار را با مقیاس انتظارات به کار گرفته اند. هر یک از انتظارات به یکی از خرده مقیاس های بالا مرتبط است.
maintenance behaviors‚ commitment‚ quality of communication‚ conflict resolution‚ self-disclosure‚ affection‚ relational certainty/security‚ role within the relationship‚ and equity
The reliability for the component of affection in our current relationship scale was .73; for relational certainty/security‚ α =.74; for quality of communication‚ α =.78; for conflict resolution‚ α =.71.
پدیدآورندگان هماهنگی درونی بقیه خرده مقیاس ها را کمتر از 0.7 گزارش می کنند. آلفا کرونباخ برای کل ابزار 0.85
چگونگی دستیابی
نمره گذاری
در هر خرده مقیاس نمره گذاری یکی از گویه ها وارون می شود.
1 = Strongly disagree‚ 7 = Strongly agree
Maintenance behaviors items: 7‚ 16‚ 25‚ 34‚ and 43
Commitment items: 5‚ 14‚ 23‚ 32‚ and 41
Quality of communication items: 6‚ 15‚ 24‚ 33‚ and 42
Conflict resolution items: 8‚ 17‚ 26‚ 35‚ and 44
Self-disclosure items: 1‚ 10‚ 19‚ 28‚ and 37
Affection items: 3‚ 12‚ 21‚ 30‚ and 39
Relational certainty/security items: 4‚ 13‚ 22‚ 31‚ and 40
Role within the relationship items: 9‚ 18‚ 27‚ 36‚ and 45
Equity items: 2‚ 11‚ 20‚ 29‚ and 38
منبع
Jessica Miller and Brandi Tedder (2011).The Discrepancy Between Expectations and Reality: Satisfaction in Romantic Relationships. Hanover College.